Collected Living: A Home Where Every Detail Tells a Story
My perfect recipe for style begins not with rules, but with rhythm: an ounce of warmth, a shot of color, a generous pour of tradition and an abundant infusion of travel. Stirred together, these elements create something far greater than design. They create a feeling, a space that doesn’t just exist but embraces, and a home that welcomes before you even cross the threshold.
This home, nestled in El Paso, has been exactly that: a place where stories gathered, where laughter lingered and where every corner held intention. It was never about perfection, only about presence.
Where Stories Begin
Long before I understood design, I understood memory.
Fifty-three years ago, I was a child on my grandparents’ farm just west of Las Cruces, gathering eggs alongside my grandmother. It was a simple, beautiful moment until it wasn’t. A peacock, perched high atop a haystack, took offense to my presence and launched into an attack. In one swift, decisive act, my grandmother grabbed a roll of baling wire and ended the chaos.
It was startling. It was unforgettable. And somehow, it became sacred.
The feathers from that moment have followed me throughout my life, appearing again and again as decorative elements in my homes. They are not just objects. They are memories made visible, a reminder of strength, protection and a woman who acted without hesitation. They are, in many ways, the beginning of my understanding that design is not about things. It is about meaning.
An Inheritance of Fearless Style
I was raised in a home where style was not curated for approval, but expressed with conviction.
My mother possessed a fearless eye. She mixed patterns unapologetically, layered colors instinctively and created spaces that felt alive rather than arranged. There was no hesitation or second-guessing, only instinct and confidence.
It shaped me in ways I would only come to understand later.
My formal education, followed by the first decade of my career in costume design, deepened that foundation. Textiles became my language. Fabric, pattern and color were no longer just elements. They were tools of storytelling. Combined with a growing love of travel, they became the primary sources of inspiration that would define my approach to design.
Textiles and travel, threads and journeys: That is where my ideas are born.
Collected, Not Decorated
This home was never “decorated.” It was collected.
Each piece arrived with a story already attached, often acquired long before I knew where it would belong. There is a certain trust required in that process: the ability to recognize something extraordinary, to claim it and to allow its place to reveal itself over time.
That instinct guided me on a trip to Peru, where I unexpectedly discovered the work of renowned photographer Mario Testino. Walking through a museum dedicated to his life’s work, surrounded by iconic imagery from the late 1980s and early 1990s, I knew I needed to bring a piece of that energy home with me. There was no plan, only certainty.
The oversized framed photos now live within the home as bold, unapologetic statements. They don’t ask permission. They command presence. Yet within the layered textures and global influences of the space, they feel exactly right. Sometimes, you don’t find the place for the piece. The piece creates the place.
A Global Dialogue in Design
Perhaps nowhere is this philosophy more evident than in the guest bedroom, where cultures converge in quiet harmony.
The bed itself is a historical homage to Mexico, discovered in a thrift store in Las Cruces and transformed into something entirely its own. Hand-formed milagros are carefully placed throughout, each one a small symbol of hope and protection. At the center, a red tin heart anchors the composition, both visually and emotionally. Layered atop this foundation is a story that spans continents.
A bedspread and green pillows sourced from a textile market in Jaipur, India, bring intricate patterns and rich color. Red pillows and a rebozo from Tlaquepaque, just outside Guadalajara, add depth and regional authenticity. Together, they form a dialogue, a conversation between places, cultures and experiences. It is not about matching. It is about meaning.
The Art of Gathering
At the center of the home’s social life is a bar that began, quite literally, as something forgotten.
A discarded double-oven cabinet, discovered at Habitat for Humanity ReStore, became the foundation for what would evolve into one of the most dynamic spaces in the home. Reimagined, enclosed and crowned with a chartreuse chopping-block countertop, it now stands as both a functional centerpiece and a creative expression. The details are delightfully unexpected.
Vintage albums create the backdrop. A monkey-shaped light fixture hangs playfully overhead. Glassware, collected over time, creates an eclectic mix that feels both curated and spontaneous. Bottles of spirits stand ready not just for consumption, but for connection.
This is where evenings begin, where stories are shared and where magic moments are made.
A well-designed bar is not about what you serve. It’s about what happens around it.
The Heart of the Home
If the bar is where the evening unfolds, the kitchen is where it begins.
Anchored by rich color and layered detail, the kitchen is both grounding and vibrant. Talavera tile flows throughout, creating continuity and rhythm not just within the space, but across the entire home. Every threshold is marked by a band of this handcrafted tile, a subtle yet powerful thread that ties every room together.
The cabinets, original to the home, have been thoughtfully refreshed. Painted surfaces are paired with handmade Talavera knobs and pulls, adding tactile beauty to everyday function. New countertops echo the tile’s presence, reinforcing the sense of cohesion.
Layering the Unexpected
In the master suite, the story continues with a moment that feels both unexpected and inevitable.
In the water closet, a canopy discovered at a yard sale introduces a Middle Eastern influence, its color and quiet drama transporting the space somewhere far beyond its walls. Accent pillows and wall hangings feature zardozi elephants, an intricate embroidery style that echoes the trapunto quilting technique I studied as a young college student.
It is a balance of time and place, old and new, here and elsewhere. It works not because it follows rules, but because it follows instinct.
A Home That Hosted Life
Beyond the objects, beyond the design and beyond the details, this home fulfilled its greatest purpose. It was a haven.
Purchased for my mother, it became a place where she lived fully for four beautiful years, a place of comfort, safety and joy. It held quiet mornings and lively evenings. It welcomed friends, family and moments that will never be replicated, only remembered.
The atrium, enclosed and alive with plants and the gentle sound of a fountain, offered a space to pause, to breathe and to simply be.
The back patio, stretching the full width of the home, became a stage for connection. Gatherings extended into the evening. Conversations lingered. Laughter echoed.
This was not just a house. It was a life lived well.
The Next Chapter
And now, it stands ready. Not empty, but open. Not finished, but waiting.
It waits for the next person who will walk through its doors and feel something they cannot quite explain, for someone who understands that a home is not about perfection, but about presence, and not about matching, but about meaning.
This home has been a chapter, a beautiful, layered and deeply personal chapter filled with warmth, color, tradition and adventure.
And now, the story continues.
